Acknowledge and Change Negative Thoughts

It’s normal to have negative thoughts, but you can change them.

Martha Lueck
5 min readAug 29, 2024
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Have you ever thought I shouldn’t be feeling this way? Maybe something upset you, and you questioned whether it really mattered. There are a few reasons you might do this, including:

  • Someone else telling you that your feelings are irrational
  • Thinking other people wouldn’t feel the same way in your situation
  • Thinking you have a habit of being too sensitive and jumping to the wrong conclusions

I’ve been there so many times! When a friend cancels on me at the last minute, I would feel upset and think they were doing it intentionally. Then part of my brain goes: You’re being selfish, Martha. You’ve done the same thing to other people a few times. Stop being so hypocritical. So I would start to think I don’t deserve to be upset. Then, my thoughts would spiral, causing me to jump to more conclusions and negative self-talk.

But the truth is that your thoughts and feelings matter. They exist for a reason. Are they always rational? No. But often, they arise from patterns you have experienced in life: bullying, deceit, rejection, loss, etc.

Think about a time when something unpleasant happened to you. Perhaps you failed a test…

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Martha Lueck
Martha Lueck

Written by Martha Lueck

Published author | Freelance blogger for HealthyPlace.com | Passionate about mental health and Jesus | https://tinyurl.com/5fbu7pj7

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